Comments on: You can justify cheating?

By: daryl@landmark chandelier

daryl@landmark chandelier — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 18:06:57 +0000

I have to say i really did take a double look at the title when i started to read this article. Theres a lot of information there, and i have to admit i was gripped from the start.
I think cheating is just wrong full stop. I think it’s difficult to trust someone unless they prove their trust to you which can only happen over time. Cheating ruins these bonds and makes it impossible to grow any further…my opinion any way.
I am a bit of an extremist, its all or nothing with me. If you cheat, don’t even bother justifying it. If you are not man, or woman, enough to admit you are unhappy and work it out then that’s your fault!

Great read. thanks.

By: Alison @ Lifestyle magazine

Alison @ Lifestyle magazine — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 19:30:52 +0000

It’s easy to go from cheating to a blame game. Who is responsible? In my experience the answer to this question is not an easy one. Most of the time both partners take some responsibility. Of course it’s always wrong to cheat on you spouse, but isn’t it at least a bit more understandable when the wife has been terrorizing her husband with criticism for years, not showing any sign of affection? Maybe the husband doesn’t want to break up with her because of the kids, financial situation,… It’s not an easy situation.

By: Love and Relationships

Love and Relationships — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 08:12:11 +0000

I guess it all depends on What actually counts as Cheating. Flirting can pass off but kissing and getting physical is definitely cheating. But then again, it all depends on the circumstances.

By: Sally

Sally — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 03:26:39 +0000

Hi Nick

Unfortunately people often don’t realise what they had until they lost it, clearly it’s what happened to your significant other. Is there any way you could forgive your partner and accept her back? 25 years together is a lot to throw away.

I agree we have created a very selfish society, where “me and what I want” comes even before children in many cases, let alone partners.

By: Nick

Nick — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 02:57:40 +0000

I fully believe that it may be unfair to expect someone to feel the same way about their partner, married or not, and become bored or unhappy later in life. But I cannot accept someone cheating for any reason they may have. One should get out of a relationship first, and avoid the second hurt it will cause after the initial pain of a breakup. What ever happened to honesty and core values? This world is a mess!!! Filled with selfish people. That’s what I ask about my significant other of twenty-five years. Now her lover doesn’t want her, and so she says she truly loves me, again. What crap…………

By: shansnv@Thailand Sex

shansnv@Thailand Sex — Thu, 24 Jun 2010 11:34:09 +0000

As i have no experience in this matter, i will suggest this only that never take any wrong decision on any body’s advice. Talk with your partner and sort out your problems. It he/she is not satisfied with your daily routine use some thing different.

By: Sally

Sally — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 15:09:53 +0000

I’m afraid you would have to add some thoughts for me to respond to James.

By: James

James — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 19:45:56 +0000

The author of this article needs to study psychology and human behavior before writing such an ignorant article.

By: Sally

Sally — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:40:14 +0000

Can’t agree more Get my GF Back …. most guys would love some direction from their lady and they do worry they aren’t doing it right. Men cant read minds and unless they are porn addicts have little to compare their performance with. If your partner is not satisfying you then gently suggest trying it a different way.

By: get my girlfriend back

get my girlfriend back — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 21:41:39 +0000

I kind of like princess whitneys comment. I can relate to it. I started having sex around 20 yrs old. I had sex before that but had no clue what I was doing. I got a serious gf when I was 20-21 and she wanted to have sex all the time. The only problem was I was so new at it, it took me a while to figure out how to be good and last. She was patient and we ended up dating for a long time over 6 years. The sex was great the best I ever had. It ended for other reasons (no not cheating) but my point is that most guys can get good at sex if you can encourage him without busting his ego. If he has even one ounce of passion in him the sex could end up being pretty good rather than military style all the time. .-= get my girlfriend back´s last blog ..FREE Report On Getting Back With Your Ex =-.