What about church? If you attend. Isn’t that a good place to meet someone who shares your ideals?

Sounds like you need to meet some new people and that will soon confirm whether you really like the man you work with or not. Have you tried online dating? I don’t mean the big sites with all the players but a small genuine site where you can meet like minded people. A site like mine is ideal for people like you as you can make friends with other women as well as meet men. A couple of my female members have made friends and are off to London soon for a weekend together, even though they haven’t met yet in real life. We also have Get Togethers sometimes, which at least gets us out of the house and meeting new people.

Not sure what your interests are but if you would like help finding a good site for you to join then just leave me a message.

My site is for like-minded country people (you don’t have to live in the country, we have city members too but it’s the mind set of the members that count), feel free to drop by and see if it appeals to you http://www.country-couples.co.uk we are very friendly and welcoming.

a new man started working in my office, I didn’t like him at first, but aftera few months I had to work alone with him and I really like him, it’s been a year now and I think about him a lot, but I wonder is it just the familiarality of spending so much time with him, he is the only man i know these days, as i don’t go out socially any more, I dont intend to ask him out or expect him to ask me, i just wish i’d someone to love