Comments on: Porn in a Relationship … what’s going on?

By: Sally

Sally — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:35:07 +0000

Hi Amber

Surely the question should then be why is our tv full of mini porn films?

Isn’t saying “if your partner enjoys porn and you think it is wrong then maybe you have some insecurity issues” just a step away from saying you must be insecure if you object to your partner having sex with the neghbours wife/husband?

By: Amber @ Personals Florida

Amber @ Personals Florida — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 21:46:24 +0000

I think we need to stop being such prudes about our sexuality, I think if your partner enjoys porn and you think it is wrong then maybe you have some insecurity issues, half the movies on TV now are mini porn films are we to stop watching TV? This is just my opinion hate it or love it.
Amber @ Personals Florida´s last blog ..Married But Looking In Florida

By: Sally

Sally — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 22:36:40 +0000

If two adults agree they like something then no worries .. have a ball, dress up, swing off the wardrobe door, play with toys, eat ice cream off each other … all good healthy fun because it is just between the two of you.

But what happens when you introduce porn. You are effectively introducing a third, forth or more party to the proceedings. They are people you will naturally start to compare size, performance, attractiveness, etc to and that just isn’t healthy. I personally believe it’s a slippery slope best left out of a marriage … just grab the kama sutra and have some fun together.

By: Mike@Stags in Krakow

Mike@Stags in Krakow — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:24:31 +0000

I totally agree with Barrett. I don’t think that all kinky activities should be forbidden though. A sexy dress, or letting your partner to experience a stag/hen night is ok IMO. But when we can’t have sex because our partner doesn’t have a particular dress/high heels or whatever – that’s way too far and if any couple gets into such weird point – they should see a speciallist.

By: Barrett@DiveIntoThePool.com

Barrett@DiveIntoThePool.com — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 21:34:11 +0000

Anything that either partner feels they have to keep secret or hide is going to hurt a relationship. That’s the line, if you wouldn’t do it in front of your partner you shouldn’t do it behind their back.