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Comment on Online Dating Scams – How the Soldier Scam Works by Sally

Sally — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 16:02:51 +0000

Hi Petra

I’m sorry you have met a scammer but don’t feel ashamed, so many people are falling for their lies and yes the desire for love makes you blind to reality.

At least you worked out it is a scam before you sent any money.

Comment on Online Dating Scam Victims – We Need You by Ingrid

Ingrid — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 10:21:24 +0000

Hello All,

Did anyone every heard about Quincy Paolo Maynard, origin from canada, currently living in Malaysia. Im very sure i have been scammed. His email was maynard.quincy@yahoo.com

Comment on Behaviour Patterns of Online Dating Scammers by Ingrid

Ingrid — Fri, 02 Sep 2011 09:34:28 +0000

Hi all,

Let me know any information if anyone of you has ever talked and contact with Quincy Maynard, 38 years from canada. When i search him on google, he appears as well in the WAYN.COM profile. Im still confused but begin to convinced my self i got this scam and i had helped him out for usd 2700 which he begging me for his business. He owe some money from a chinese private lender in Malaysia and when the times come, he just dont have enough money to pay it back. His email is maynard.quincy@yahoo.com. I made report to Malaysian police and now they are investigating it. If someone ever heard this same case, please let me know so i can add information to the police. Thanks so much

Comment on Online Dating Scams – How the Soldier Scam Works by Petra Sanchez

Petra Sanchez — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 21:14:27 +0000

Hi,I first Idon’t speaking english very well ok? Then I want you excuse if I write something wrong. I found this article when I was looking for a site that my “boyfriend” gave to me to ask for a leave to him. He doesn’t ask for money yet, but I see he was on his way. I think this is a very organized gang of scumers because look a like when they engaged somebody they have to report it to other person and for this reason they ask to the lady for his leave. You know like a tower of control(sorry I don’t know how to said it). I’m very shamed because my ex- husband was a military and I knew that he has to ask for himself his leave if he want to get out. But I was so illusionate and so desperate to find somebody who love that I was almost fell. I feel sorry for the real sgt. Andrea Ramos, who looks so nice and so good.We most have to stop this people.

Comment on Basic Travel Allowance | BTA Dating Scam by Sally

Sally — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 15:57:16 +0000

Hi Anonymous

Sorry I can’t publish my email where all the scammers can see it. Use the Ask a Dating Question link at the top of the blog and I will reply to your email address.

Comment on Basic Travel Allowance | BTA Dating Scam by Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 10:34:33 +0000

What’s your e mail I’d like some advice cause I feel like I’m in the same situation here

Comment on Basic Travel Allowance | BTA Dating Scam by Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 10:10:16 +0000

Your saying that you actually met her?

Comment on How to Write a Good Introductory Email Message for Online Dating by Guyimpian

Guyimpian — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 09:31:39 +0000

You can also “hide” a compliment wrapped with indirect insult. This de-stabilizes the person’s emotions. Special care, skill and sensitivity required.

E.g
“Didn’t know anyone looks good in sunglasses and a tank top”
“You really DO have a brain”
“Oh you just got 5% more interesting”
“My friend, Marie, wears black leather skirt , made elephants jealous because it made her hips look HUGE!”
“You sound smarter than you do in your profile”

Comment on How to Write a Good Introductory Email Message for Online Dating by Guyimpian

Guyimpian — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 09:23:40 +0000

Give two compliments above the neck, assuming they have a picture. E.g I love the way your red curly hair frames your face! It brings out the color of your green eyes! OR are you a model by any chance? your face reminds me of Heidi Klum (or other supermodel), you sure you’re not related?

Comment on Internet Dating Scam No 1 – The 419 Scam by widowmom

widowmom — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 02:10:30 +0000

I’m no fool, but boy those guys can be good.
I’m pretty sure I’m being scammed my Daniel Fern (Fernandez) All the classic stuff. Can’t speak English, steals love notes from the internet, loves me more than himself (after a week) is currently in Malaysia buying antiques, needed money because credit card was stolen, (NO I DID NOT SEND HIM MONEY), wants to be with me for the rest of my life, tells me everything I want to hear,it goes on.
Has a home in Rochester, MN
Let my heart believe. Damn that hurts. Well didn’t lose anything except time, and a little self respect.