Have you ever had an issue you feel really hurt about but just cannot get your point across to your man? Leaving you frustrated about why he doesn’t understand the problem. Most of us have, we have the circular argument about reactions and emotions to a situation but he just doesn’t get it. We then [...]
Continue reading...21. March 2009
Shame and guilt will lead you to ask the question should I admit I had a one night stand but before you admit to a one night stand consider your partner. Unlike the question should I admit to having an affair the question of whether you should admit to having had a one night stand [...]
Continue reading...8. March 2009
Cuddling is a special form of intimacy, not the foreplay type of cuddling or cuddling after sexual activity but the ”I love to be with you’ type of cuddling. It’s a great way of bonding with your partner. Have you ever noticed that bubbly, happy people tend to be more cuddly. Whereas stern, stressed out [...]
Continue reading...20. February 2009
Are you afraid of relationships or falling in love? Have past experiences hurt you to the point that relationships and love scare you? If so you are certainly not alone. As we get older fear can stop us entering a new relationship because experience tells us it ends badly and we get hurt. Pain is [...]
Continue reading...28. January 2009
If you are in a long term relationship do you ever bother to dress up for your man? I am not talking about the french maids outfit in the bedroom or dressing up to go out together but simply dressing up for him. In many marriages and long term relationships it’s all too easy to [...]
Continue reading...16. January 2009
“Friends with Benefits” is a term used for sex only relationships with a friend but do friends with benefits relationships work? It’s easy to think or say “it’s just a bit of fun and nobody will get hurt” but the reality of these arrangements is more often than not a broken friendship and emotional pain [...]
Continue reading...11. January 2009
Whether your partner is physically abusive, mentally abusive or a self abuser like an alcoholic … you need to accept that waiting around trying to change them is not going to work. Abusive relationships get worse over time, not better. It is not only weak people that become victims of abuse, I was a very [...]
Continue reading...7. January 2009
Each year around this time, people are feverishly working on making lists of drastic changes they are going to make in their lives that rarely stick. While many focus on themselves only in their resolutions, it can be great to consider your relationship as a focal point for some resolutions as well. Finding new ways [...]
Continue reading...2. January 2009
Now all the works Christmas parties are over some people will be faced with the dilemma of dating a work colleague. In large workplaces ‘office romances’ are inevitable but being mature and setting ground rules from the start can save a lot of problems in the future. It has never been a good idea to [...]
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30. April 2009
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