What drives a good looking, confident single woman to only seek married men for a “relationship”? Is that what they set out to find or did she just discover that she can get what she wants or feels she needs from a casual relationship with a married man having an affair? Some single men have [...]
Continue reading...26. July 2008
If you are thinking about dating online then go and write out 100 times ‘I must not talk about my ex’. This subject is now taboo for you, your ex is your past and you are about to embark on your future, so don’t drag your ex with you. I cannot count the times I [...]
Continue reading...23. July 2008
Knowing the difference between love and lust can stop you falling into a bad relationship. It is so easy to convince yourself that within a week you are in love with someone but what you are really feeling is physical attraction. That may mean you find someone physically attractive to look at or perhaps their [...]
Continue reading...19. July 2008
It is not often I would quote an American psychotherapist, being a typical Brit I believe group hugging should be reserved for dogs, horses and occasionally small children. However I came across this quote by Dr Wayne W Dyer: “Be miserable or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.” Dr Dyer [...]
Continue reading...16. July 2008
Not only do women now refer to most men as shallow but the men are now so guilt ridden that they themselves have begun to apologise for this perceived shallowness. Search the net for “shallow men” and see how many articles are written insisting that men are shallow because they find a certain body type [...]
Continue reading...13. July 2008
My brother met his wife of four years online, so without doubt you can meet people and fall in love through online dating sites. However the question is can you fall in love with someone you have only spoken to online and not met in real life? The simple answer, in my opinion, is a [...]
Continue reading...6. July 2008
Some of us ladies are still thrilled when the florist van arrives at our door but before sending flowers find out what message you are sending. Rather than just nipping in to the local petrol station or buying forced flowers from the supermarket, put a little effort in to selecting and sending flowers. However beware [...]
Continue reading...1. July 2008
Mother Teresa said “The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread” and rarely have truer words been spoken. Unless you have been crushingly lonely you don’t understand just what a strong and self destructive emotion it can be. I am not talking about the level of loneliness you [...]
Continue reading...29. June 2008
The ever moving goal posts of the dating game leave older daters in turmoil, with dating techniques constantly changing. No doubt each generation feels the same, we date in our younger years then enter a long term relationship but when we find ourselves on the singles market again everything seems to have changed. During the [...]
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31. July 2008
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