Comments on: Can you fall in love online?

By: Sally

Sally — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 09:06:57 +0000

Hi Florence

Men, generally, do react differently to women in times of trouble. They tend to retreat into themselves, whereas we share our worries with our loved ones.

It’s a good example of why we need to take time to get to understand someone’s life when we are chatting online and don’t just concentrate on the lovey dovey stuff but watch out for signs that all is not as it seems.

By: Florence

Florence — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 04:10:39 +0000

Yes. Now that we have been in a relationship for a while there are some problems. He led me to believe he was quite alone in the world. Not so. And he is away a lot and unpredictable. Moody and controlling. I didnt know he was so active in international politics…he is in lots of trouble…having many problems..and doesnt discuss things..just clams up..shuts down.

By: Sally

Sally — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:08:42 +0000

Congratulations Florence, I am so pleased it worked out for you. What you are saying actually confirms the content of the article though. You say that in person you both had chemistry .. that is the important issue. You simply don’t know if there is chemistry or you can really love someone until you actually meet in person, until then it is simply the “idea” of loving that person.

By: Florence

Florence — Mon, 14 Sep 2009 03:25:21 +0000

I actually did fall in love thru online chats and mails. It was just the two of us talking. In person I felt lots of chemistry…he too..but we both are very shy. I ad been hurt by men…he is just socially inept. But online and invisible..we shared our hearts. At firrst in person it was awkward..but soon we relaxed..well I was the most nervous. He was just confused. I began to hug him..kiss him..tickle him…just like on emails…now we are official.