Do you have a romantic night of passion planned? Setting the scene is one way to get your lover in a romantic and passionate mood. These dating tips will get you started and the rest is up to you.
Creating the right mood need not cost a fortune and just takes a little effort on your part. Whether you are in a new relationship or been married for years, a little romance works wonders.
People often think of setting up a candlelit dinner or a bubble bath with candles and scented water but then your lover has to wade through your dirty washing to get into an unmade bed.
Here are some tips for getting your bedroom up to scratch for that big romantic night of passion.
1. Cleanliness
Make sure your bedroom is clean, not just everything picked up off the floor. Dust the furniture, empty the waste paper bin and tidy everything that is on show.
2. Bedding
There is nothing like simple white bedding to make a bedroom feel fresh and clean. Ensure you have ironed them and made the bed tidily. White is better than dark colours because it feels clinical and won’t make your lover wonder how many people have been there before them. If you are on a budget try Ikea for white bedding at only £23.99 for a double set, with a plain sheet for about £4.
3. Scent
No, a quick spray round the room with a tin of air freshener will not do. Before the big date air the room, throw the windows wide and let some fresh air in. Then place some fragrance oil, incense sticks or pot pourri in the room. Try MadKat forscent diffusers which will last about 3 months.
4. Candles
Before you invite your lover into your bedroom go in and light a few well lit candles. With candles quantity makes all the difference, the more candles you have the more romantic it will feel. Do not place them too close to the bed, just in case of accidents when you get passionately carried away. Candles can be expensive costing as much as £40 for a single scented candle, so if you are on a budget, while you are ordering the white bed linen from Ikea, also buy a bag of candles in a tin at just £3.29 for 24. Let’s be honest, by the time they burn out your lovers mind should be on other things.
5. Special Gift
Choose a small gift to place on their pillow, this should be something that makes them feel special. If they are romantic perhaps a flower, if they have a great sense of humour perhaps edible body paint or a glow in the dark condom. If they are just plain naughty …… I shall leave that one to your imagination.
October 7th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
Have you noticed a difference in comments since you’ve been using Keyword Luv? I was considering installing it.
October 14th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
Hi Frank
The spam has increased tenfold but if you keep on top of it then the good comments also increase.
January 26th, 2011 at 8:28 pm
just wondering when installing keyword luv do you expereince allot of spam.
January 28th, 2011 at 8:20 pm
Hi Matt
Yes I get about 60% spam but Askimet catches most of it and the rest is easy to spot and delete. Also by setting the comment luv at a minimum of say 4 or 5 comments (ie they don’t get the luv until they make a set amount of accepted comments) even if a spam comment gets through they get no value from the link.