Comments on: 3 Reasons Why Women Cheat | Understanding Adultery

By: Laura

Laura — Tue, 14 Jun 2011 19:31:16 +0000

The feeling of insecurity does not go away. I cheated on my husband after he cheated on me and treated me badly. It’s never even, because I did it to get even and he did it because he loved her and he came back because she didn’t want him. Yes. The thought of having the man you love want to be with someone else and you are second choice. I have to admit it was very liberating to see him cry and go through all the pain that I had went through. KARMA! But to me it was not the same because we were separated and I told him before he came back what I had done. He had a personal choice to stay and mine was taken away and I was tricked into marriage. People can be so manipulating….But yes I have learned to love myself and take control of my life. A real player does not have to lie about their affairs and does it right in front of your face. I am a woman who knows what she wants and will not cheat again but walk away with respect for myself…but the sex was great while it lasted and my husband will always remember what he lost..

By: Sally

Sally — Sun, 29 May 2011 14:26:05 +0000

So you’re not a very quick learner then. I hope you get everything you deserve.

By: peppersunlight

peppersunlight — Sun, 29 May 2011 13:45:44 +0000

I had an affair with my first husband too. I thankfully ended his marriage and am on to greener pastures now.

By: Sally

Sally — Sun, 29 May 2011 13:33:05 +0000

Wow that is a really hard attitude you have there. As 67% of all second marriages fail, the stats I believe are higher for second marriages born from adultery and even higher still for third marriages, your chances of success are quite slim. This shows that the majority of people who leave a spouse to seek something from a new spouse rarely get what they are seeking.

Perhaps you both deserve each other and will be content or perhaps you will in the end lose everything. If I was a betting woman I would bet on the latter, because your attitude will not fulfill his needs in the long run.

By: peppersunlight

peppersunlight — Sun, 29 May 2011 10:54:49 +0000

I am divorcing him so I can have everything that I want. He is a loser. I want the whole doctor wife status. My new man is recently divorced thanks to me, I am much younger than his ex and I want it all!!

By: Sally

Sally — Sat, 28 May 2011 18:47:47 +0000

How does your husband feel about this Peppersunlight?

By: peppersunlight

peppersunlight — Sat, 28 May 2011 12:41:07 +0000

I have cheated multiple times and I love it. I have now landed a doctor who pays everything for me and my kids. All I have to do is put out.

By: robert

robert — Tue, 24 May 2011 15:12:05 +0000

Here’s an old story…and sometimes it is sad but true;

A woman gets married. After a whild she starts makeing her husband change his style of clothes, hair style, and just about everything else he does in his. Then she gets caught cheating. Her excuse is: He’s not the man I married”

By: Sally

Sally — Fri, 20 May 2011 19:30:35 +0000

Yes am happy to exchange email addresses Ray … thank you.

By: Ray

Ray — Fri, 20 May 2011 19:24:54 +0000

Hi Kevin,

I really feel for you, Your emotions are raw and the pain you feel is as strong today as it was when you found out about your wife’s affair.
I want to help you as much as I can, so if you reply to this post I would like to exchange email addresses via Sally (If it’s ok with her)
I am willing to send you my ebook detailing my experience of coming to terms with my wife’s affair,and our eventual reconciliation. It’s for sale on the internet, but you can have it for free.
I will also like to continue to help you by exchanging emails.

What I really wanted at the time was someone to talk to, I was too embarrassed to ask my friends.

Ray