Comments on: 3 Reasons Why Women Cheat | Understanding Adultery

By: Sally

Sally — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 15:27:16 +0000

Hi Ray

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your story, it’s left me with a silly grin on my face. I take my hat off to you and imagine it was very difficult to get over the affair so very well done for sticking with it.

Unfortunately us women are so driven by our emotions and we relate attention to love, so lack of attention = lack of love = lonely = need attention from elsewhere.

I lived in the Middle East for a number of years and their attitude of “leave a womans side for a moment and she will have an affair” never failed to offend me but in all honesty there is a grain of truth in it. Not that all women will tear their clothes off and run rampant in the High Street if left alone for 10 minutes but if they feel neglected over a long period of time it can be so easy for anyone paying them compliments and attention to turn their heads.

Many congratulations on your children …. proof positive that you now appreciate your wife

By: Ray

Ray — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 16:45:48 +0000

Hi Sally,

My wife cheated on me more than ten years ago. She said she felt lonely and unappreciated. Because of her affair I had decided to start a new life but then changed my mind. I wanted her back with me, and I tried hard to make things work out for us.

Today we have two children and a happy marriage,and are closer than we ever were, but the situation was difficult for a long time, and I would never want to go through that again.
Never take anything for granted in a relationship!
Ray´s last blog ..Setting Boundaries In A Marriage

By: Sally

Sally — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 04:58:26 +0000

Hi Ellen

I’ve removed your advert for the book but please tell me you are kidding. As you have chosen to leave your comment on an article about why women cheat then surely you are suggesting a woman be unfaithful to her husband to prove to herself her sexuality doesnt come second to his?

By: Ellen

Ellen — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 03:37:36 +0000

Any woman, married, single or otherwise should feel good about her decision to take a lover. A new book,******* , empowers women to seek emotional and sexual fulfillment by making sure she does not see her sexuality is being secondary to that of a man’s.

By: Catch a cheating wife

Catch a cheating wife — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 13:28:33 +0000

I think the number 1 reason for a wife to cheat would fore most be that she is not getting the attention from her husband.

Revenge Cheating yes I have heard of women cheating all because they want to get back at there husband sadly but its true.

Well Thrill Seeking women are out there but lets face it there husbands are most likely not doing for them so they are out for some fun with the husband it not giving it to them.

By: Steve@debt collection

Steve@debt collection — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 02:44:13 +0000

But isn’t number 3 more like becoming board with the current life? looking for a change. I guess its part of having comunication with your partner too

By: Gregg @ The Cheatring Spy Website

Gregg @ The Cheatring Spy Website — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:45:13 +0000

Yes I agree that most women might think about attention somewhere else because they are not getting enough attention at home. Yes also ageed that its very easy to fall into that type of rut without even relizing it and then it might be to late.
If you feel you need more attention then that’s the time to speak up and talk to your spouse about it.
On the other hand if you feel that your other half is cheating on you then that feeling alone might be enough to find out the truth.
Gregg @ The Cheatring Spy Website´s last blog ..Wireless Night Vision Security Camera

By: Sally

Sally — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:36:47 +0000

Excellent comment thank you Kevin, we certainly seem to have become very selfish in relationships these days and naturally this disconnects us from our partner.

By: Kevin on Hypnosis

Kevin on Hypnosis — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 12:51:51 +0000

As a hypnotherapist I deal with lots of relationship issues. One of the biggest problems is, they get bored with each others company. I teach them to understand what interests their partner and visa/versa.
Asking and training their subconscious mind to look outwards to what their partner wants, rather than looking inwards to themselves. This selfless rather than selfish attitude works very well under therapy and probably they way forward to think in all our lives.

Kevin

By: Jamie@cheating husband signs

Jamie@cheating husband signs — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 15:04:06 +0000

I agree that most women likely cheat because they aren’t getting attention from their husbands. It’s very easy to fall into this situation without even realizing it. I think the key is to ensure that you make time for the relationship and not take each other for granted. Of course, with our fast-paced lives, this is sometimes hard to do. I might also mention that it can work the other way and a wife can suddenly find herself dealing with a cheating husband for the same reasons.

Jamie
Jamie@cheating husband signs´s last blog ..Signs of a Cheating Husband updated Tue Mar 24 2009 8:12 pm CDT